I find that since I moved from Texas to here (Clintwood) VA I do not have a spot that I can call my own and relax and plant etc.... I miss that! What would be your total relaxing spot in your garden?
Mine would be sitting on the bench my sons and daughter bought for us on our silver wedding anniversary years ago. I'd have a nice, hot cuppa in my hands and a favourite book to read. :-D However, I know I wouldn't be sitting there for long as I'd be bound to see a weed somewhere that needed pulling or a branch that needed trimming.
Underneath the tall double arches, heavily overgrown with Clematis and Buddleja. It is where my tiny shade garden is, as well as the bird bath and there is always a cool breeze. When the sun is setting in the west, some spots of sunlight dapple through and warms you back up a little. I like sitting there and watching what comes into the shafts of sunlight, be it insects or the curling evaporation from my teacup.